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How to Deal with Loneliness in Our 30s

Think Positively

Changing your thoughts may make you feel happier and less lonely. If you often think negatively about being alone, it is likely to have negative feelings about loneliness. Nevertheless, if you can accept and embrace this feeling, it is easier to deal with it. A simple tip is to talk to yourself positively. Think that it is totally fine to be alone and you can live independently. This may help build up tolerance to loneliness over time. Whenever you are aware of negative thoughts about being alone, try to distract them with other helpful and realistic thoughts. The key is to avoid thinking positively as much as you can.  [9]

Visit a Therapist

Loneliness may lead to certain mental issues in the long term. Especially, studies have shown that depression and loneliness are linked to each other. Feeling lonely may make you feel depressed and vice versa. In these cases, even meeting others may not help with your loneliness. The best option is to seek help from a therapist, especially when you are experiencing some signs of depression. Many types of therapy can help. For instance, cognitive behavioral therapy may help change your behaviors and thoughts to think more positively and feel less lonely. [10]